It's time to be counted...dumdum..dumdum..

Bismillahirrahmannir rahim..

Assalamualaikum wbt..i'm in battle mode,so to make one more day to be count,i present my favourite roh's food...a child's prayer..O Allah I love you so..I really love all the prayers recited by a child.It's like I become a child again though I'm old enough to have a child on my own..but nevermind me,it just the recitation that i want to share..have a nice day,let it be COUNTED....

For true believers,we must be..=}

We need to grab hold together to be 1 ummah=)

"Sexy" Fashions . . . What Do Men Think?

How do those "sexy" fashions really affect men? As a man, I'd like to explain.

Frequently I see women poured into tight jeans and short mini-skirts. Others wear revealing blouses, tight sweaters and sheer pants. Women are wearing "sexy" fashions just about everywhere - to work, school and even to church.

But do "sexy" clothes get women what they really want? Are these women striving to be honored, loved and respected by men?

Sometimes when I see women wearing "sexy" outfits, I wonder . . . Maybe she's looking for a boyfriend or hoping she'll attract her future husband? Or, maybe she feels she has to show off parts of her body to compete with other women for her boyfriend or husband's love and attention?

Maybe it's a power rush for some women to know their body caught a man's eye and became the focus of his attention. Maybe turning heads and hearing hoots and wistles is an ego booster for some?
It may be these reasons or others, but the bottom line is this: Dressing in "sexy" clothes will not cause men to honor and respect women. In fact, it actually guarantees women that men will dishonor and disrespect them.

What Triggers Sexual Thoughts in Men?

It's natural to want to dress attractively. But without always being aware of it, women who wear "sexy" clothes are "dressing for sex" -- that is, dressing in ways that set off sexual thoughts in men.

Why do men react this way, and why don't women always realize it? Because men and women are "wired" differently when it comes to the human body. The fact is, it doesn't take much visual stimulus at all for guys to become sexually aroused. The sight of the female body - even just a little bit and even if it's a complete stranger -- can trigger sexual thoughts instantly. This might be difficult for women to understand, but it's absolutely true.

How about women? My female friends tell me that, sure . . . women appreciate handsome, well-built men -- but women are not affected visually in the same intense way that men are. Women for example, find words of love, tenderness and sincere appreciation much more meaningful than physical images of men.

Given these differences, there's no question that "sexy" clothes will get a man's attention. For some women this may seem flattering or fun at first, but ultimately, it's not fulfilling because it won't attract the kind of attention -- or the man -- that a woman really wants. Why? Because it causes men to want to "use" women sexually rather than love them for who they are.

Remember, the sight of a woman's body is so powerful for men, that unless men are well trained and highly disciplined, it's difficult for them to refrain from sexual thoughts. And once these thoughts begin, they can, and frequently do, turn to impure thoughts (ie. "If only we were alone, I'd sure like to . . . ").

These thoughts are called lust, and the clothes women wear can actually trigger these thoughts in a split second. Don't be mistaken, men are responsible for their thoughts, but what women wear -- how women present themselves -- plays a major role. Dressing "sexy" is like sending an invitation to men. Sure, if a man lets his mind run wild with lust when he sees a woman, he's responsible for the thoughts he entertains. But ladies, don't you see that what you wear can be an invitation to temptation?

Why do Men see Women as Sex Objects?

Whether you know it or not, if you dress in revealing clothes, many men will see you as a "sex object." Not only that, but the way you dress can affect how men view other women as well. When women dress in "sexy" clothes, it not only promotes lustful thoughts, but it also encourages men to develop a warped vision of all women -- a view that can cause men to think of and treat all women as sex objects.

Whether it's conscious or unconscious, if you present yourself in a way that is sexually revealing, even in the slightest of ways, many men will want your body for their own sexual pleasure without regard for you as a person. Dressing this way will cause people to think of you as sexually loose. Men you meet will be constantly distracted with sexual temptations and find it hard to ever get to know you as a person. Some will verbally harass you. Others will tell you they love you -- or anything they think you want to hear -- just to get into bed with you. Still others will try to grope -- or even rape you.

Now let me be clear. No matter how a woman is dressed, it's never an excuse for rape or sexual aggression of any kind. Men who commit these acts have committed a sin and a crime. Nothing I'm saying is an excuse or a rationalization for rape or sexual assault. As a man, I'm here to tell you that men must be more disciplined. We must control our thoughts and actions no matter what temptations are presented before us.

But ladies, we need your help. Please don't be misled by women's magazines that say the only thing guys are after is sex. Don't think you've got to dress "sexy" to compete for the "good" guys. That's not true. It's guys who want to use you sexually (either in their minds or in person) that are going to encourage you to dress "sexy."

Good guys are out there and you don't have to show off your body to meet them. Be patient. Deep down inside, guys want to meet and marry girls who are pure, modest and virtuous. And what you wear tells the world a great deal about what you think about yourself. It speaks volumes about what qualities you give high priority to when it comes to relationships.

Do you want men to think of lustful thoughts when they see you? Will that attrack good men?
(Me,no!!!!!!!!!)

I know it may seem that good men are few and far between, but they are out there. And remember, the way you dress can help encourage more men to be good and treat women with respect.

Love the You Inside!

Most women want to be loved and respected for who they are inside, not for their looks. Isn't that what you want? Don't you want to be loved by a man who loves you for who you are inside? This kind of man is a sincere, pure-hearted, virtuous man -- a man who's confident, disciplined and committed to you and your relationship.

This is a man with sexual self-control. It's not a man who's looking for quick flings or lusting after every cute girl he sees.

But what role does modesty play? Katherine Kersten, commentator on National Public Radio and chairman of the Center of the American Experiment, wrote:

"But modesty is about something more -- simple fairness. We women demand respect from men, insisting that they value us not for our looks, but for 'who we are.' It is hypocritical to do this, and then dress and act immodestly -- intentionally provoking sexual desire, and signaling our easy openness to it. To act this way is to undermine our own dignity, to treat ourselves as 'sex objects.' Moreover, it is patently unfair, for it means that we are holding men to a higher standard than we hold ourselves."

Finding Lasting Love . . .

If you are seeking lasting love and a life-long marriage that unites mind, soul and body -- the best way to achieve this is by being the kind of person you want your future spouse to be. Think of yourself and your future mate as someone with integrity, a vibrant personality and a strong character. If you develop these qualities and demonstrate them through words, actions and appearance, it will help you attract the same in a spouse.

Many good men are out there -- men with wonderful personalities, men who are respectful, intelligent and looking for a long-term relationship -- men who will be faithful and committed to one wife for life. To find a truly honorable man like this, remember that he'll be attracted to a woman who dresses modestly as a sign of her purity and a sign that she recognizes each person is unique, unrepeatable and created in the image and likeness of God.

By dressing modestly, a woman sends a message to the world -- that every person was created to love and be loved in the purest of ways. Modesty also shows the great reverence we should have for our bodies and our immortal souls -- two sacred gifts that should always be treated with dignity and respect.

If you want a man to respect you, and perhaps eventually fall in love with you, then you must show him that you respect yourself and that you recognize your dignity before God. The best way to show this is through modesty in dress, words, thoughts and actions.

In closing, I want to thank all women who dress modestly. I sincerely appreciate it when a woman makes this extra effort.

I personally know several women who always dress in modest clothes. When I see them, I always try to let them know how much I appreciate their pretty, modest attire. Many of these women are very beautiful, but what makes them even more attractive than physical beauty or fashionable clothes, is the virtue of modesty which glows through their spirit. Their modesty shows thoughtfulness, inner strength and a great respect for others. Modesty also shows a pure heart and a generous desire to save oneself for a spouse (future or current).

Ladies, thank you for your modesty! It really helps us men.

by Mike Mathews from http://www.prolife.com/SexyFashions.htm

The mistake I made..

Assalamualaikum wbt..

みんあ、おげんきですか??　わたしわ　げんきない　です。まいにち　あめ　あります。さむい　です。As cold as my heart, still beating but lost the one thing i dear most.

Life for me are like a story book.I am impatiently eager to look at the next page of the book,and imagining the climax of the story.However,it just not as しあわせ as I imagine,it would not a happy-ending story forever.

The author of my book is Allah.My Creator,my Sustainer.Which always write the best ことば　と　ものがたり。However,me inside the book,the one character that always happen to be troublesome.Always sigh sadly,and been mesmerize by the situation around me.

The author had write WORLD as a bewitching place,full of sinister smiles and also an outstanding happiness.Then,the author made the plot into a maze-look alike.Puzzled and apparently unpredictable.Some characters feel like they had doing their best to fulfill the captivating world,the enchanting life and the fascination of the plot.While the other characters feel like they want to attribute their life to match-alike with the story,in the same time planning for their appearance in the sequel of the book.

Which characters are me??

Which characters are you??

あなたを choice わ　なにか??

はい、LIFE IS A CHOICE..which characters you want to be,and which ending you imagine to be..

Actually,world does not split into good and bad people.Because,inside every of us together had the good and bad side.And it is OUR CHOICE about which side we want to play best..

It does not too late.And better be late than never.Allah is FORGIVEN.I am here to advice myself,and others that we should recognize the mistake we make can involve us to a gravely danger and severe outcome if we still play the characters until the last page of the book.

"O God,Ya Allah,please give me a chance to re-correct my mistake.It's all because of my bad judgement,my ignorance and my inattention.Please save me from the bad intention of other people.It just YOU that I need most"

Self Correction Mode

Bismillah..

Assalamualaikum wbt minna..here,something i would like to share,a point to ponder..praise Allah for what have you look,heard,feel,taste and thought..たすけて Allah、おなじ もの です。なるほど!!

I know you are there

Little bird,

Covered by rich green, talking to the tree

Yes, a talking tree!

I know you are hiding

Little ant,

Under the solid brown, listening to the song

Yes, the singing earth!

I know you are relaxing

Tiny drop of rain,

Inside the airy white, hearing the laugh

Yes, a laughing cloud!

I know you are dancing

Little bee,

Beside fresh colors, joining a prayer

Yes, a praying flower!

I know you are breathing

Little fish,

Deep in the wide blue, amazed by stories

Yes, the Historian Ocean!

I am sitting in my room

Seeing you all in the heart of my eye

Praising the work of God

Wishing to add more before I die

Talking tree

Singing earth

Laughing cloud

Praying flower; and

Historian Ocean

Let me join you, and be sublime

Praising Allah till the end of our time!

Author :- Sis Zoya Ahmad

I'm preparing for a battle..

Assalamualaikum wbt..daijobu deska??Minna,terrifying time nowadays..but point to ponder,


Fill in the blanks yourself...=)

Sister Zainab Oñez Discovered Islam while training to be a nun

Salamun'alaik..Minna,ogenkideska??Here i got something in my email..From Islamic Youth Awakening Yahoo Group's admin,Dr Adel Elsaie.

Few days ago, I had a chat with brother Jibril Agil Ali. He introduce himself as a Latino Muslim. I was so happy to chat with him.

In the same day, I had another chat window with Sister Zainab. She told me that she is a converted Muslim from Philippine. Again, I was extremely happy. Two converted Muslim in one day chatting with me. Subhana Allah. Can you imagine how I felt? Can our Westernized Muslim youth look at her story, and see how a Christian become committed Muslim. Sister Zainab should be an inspiration to Muslim Youth. I truly believe that converts to Islam are one of the few bright spots in our Islamic Ummah.

I asked Sister Zainab to send me her story. She graciously accepted, and here is her story:

Dear Dr. Adel Elsaie;

Assalamu alaikum waramatullahi wa barakatuhu!

I am Zainab Oñez, 24 years old, single never been married, a graduate of Bachelor of Science in Commerce major in Marketing at Holy Cross of Davao College Inc, Philippines. I was a former Roman Catholic and I am one of the working Scholars in SVD or society Verbini Divini, a religious congregation in the Catholic religion for 6 years. Previously, my plan was to become a nun. When I was at the young age of 14, I used to ask myself why many people would have debates about the Christian religion. I had realized maybe God has given one religion to all mankind. When I reached the age of 20, I started to research on the internet and I read about how ISLAM IS A WAY OF LIFE. And I was getting shocked, why was Catholisism not a way of life? I started to research more about Islam because it was my first time to hear about Islam.

I printed all the Islamic research that I had found from the internet and showed them to our professor. He was getting angry with me; why I was studying about Islam; Muslims are terrorists; Muslims are bad people; Muslims worship another God. I considered this as a challenge and was encouraged to study more about Islam. After two years of studying about Islam I decided to embrace Islam last February 21, 2006.

Alhamduillah, I am only one Muslim among with our family and I am now working as a volunteer in Dawah Islamic propagation in Davao city. My entire Christian friends were against me in my new Islamic way of life. I don’t care what other people say. The most important thing is that this is my decision and I know that this is the true religion of Allah SWT given to all mankind. Allah said in

Surah al Imram 3:19 INNAD DEENA IND ALLAH ISLAM- TRULY THE RELIGION WITH ALLAH IS ISLAM.

And in Surah al-Imram 3: 85 those whoever seek a religion other than Islam it will never be accepted of Him, and in the hereafter he will be one of the losers.

That is why I spend my life in Dawah for Muslim and non-Muslim area because this is the true religion of Allah that has given to all mankind. The first big jihad for me is wearing of hijab and abaya but alhamdulillah with the help of Allah I got my self-confidence of wearing in proper attire. Most of Christian friends say, what happened to you Zainab, you look like a ghost but I smile at them, and say you do not understand what you are talking about and it is better for you to study your Bible because even the Bible is very strict for the woman:

1 Corinthian 11:5-6 says

but any woman who prays or prophesies with her head unveiled disgraces her head—it is one and the same thing as having her head shaved. For if a woman will not veil herself, then she should cut off her hair; but if it is disgraceful for a woman to have her hair cut off or to be shaved, she should wear a veil.

If Christians read their Bible carefully and understand their Bible, all of them will become Muslims.

I am now enjoying making my comparative study of religion and inshaAllah I am hoping to be like Ahmad Deedat a good daeyah or preacher in our Islamic religion. Now, I am always hoping to focus on study in Arabic education inshaAllah if Allah given me an opportunity to study in Saudi Arabia inshaAllah.

If you want to contact Sister Zainab, send me email, and I will Inshaa Allah forward the mail to her.

Please try to correct my English grammar. I hope that you can understand because I am not really good in English grammar.

jazakallahu khairan.

Sis . zainab,Philippine

Isn't this beautiful??remarkable=)

The Divine Book

Assalamualaikum wbt..Minna,Ramadhan move very fast..And I hardly to keep up with it..My 24 hours are getting smaller literally.While working and studying at the same time,I spare some time to retain my soul.Then I meet this really brilliant series of discoveries by Noreaga Production and Archenahr Film.They called this as a wake up project.Hope it rejoice your soul also as do I am..You can follow their wake up project by supporting them in the net and proclaim the message "1 GOD,1 ORIGINAL MESSAGE"...I present you part 09 from The Divine Book Series..Feel free to watch the discoveries from the first part in http://www.youtube.com/results?search_query=the+divine+book&aq=1

From this great opportunities and chance,I wish all of you to regain the taqwa in this holy month and embrace the Divine Book,AlQuranul Kareem..17 Ramadhan is the Nuzul Quran Day..