Something Seriously True..

Bismillah

Assalamualaikum wbt..

This is really a 5 minute reading I patch from http://www.facebook.com/deedsin60seconds.

Something really nice and I wish to share it with you all.Point to ponder:At least let 60second of your time to remember Allah..

" A British man came to Sheikh and asked: Why is not permissible in Islam for women to shake hands with a man? The Sheikh said: Can you shake hands with Queen Elizabeth? British man said: Of course not, there are only certain people who can shake hands with Queen Elizabeth. Sheikh replied: our women are queens and queens do not shake hands with strange men.

Take 60 seconds to reflect and make the changes needed to respect:
Our Mothers, Our Wives, Our Daughters, Our Sisters, Our Women.

For indeed they play a crucial role in our success in this life and the next! "

La ila ha ilalla. Alhamdulillah for being Muslim!

Learn from nature..すばらし ね。。

Assalamualaikum wbt...

Minna,ogenkidesuka??Nowadays,I am rehearsing one book by a very well-known author in Malaysia.He is Ustadz Pahrol Mohd Juoi.I am really passionate to spread the content inside the book to you all.I'm not exaggerating but it really mind blowing..awesome in simple way.Presenting~ Nota Fikir untuk Zikir (Translate to : The thinking notes lead to Zikir)

The contents just packed with wisdom (hikmah) that he describe from our old tales that we might assume that's all just fairy tales but it had a very deep wisdom indeed.Subhanallah..And the very touching part is when he describe Nature as our greatest teacher.Nature is one ultimate creation by God and nature always speak to mankind about the powerful and supreme power of Allah.But mankind just appraise at the blessing in physical form,but not praise the supreme power that sustain the blessing.It is Allah,the one god.The most supreme and the Sustainer.

This book discover to us example of few creation in nature that actually had show mankind the true miracles above had sent.Just in simple and small creature had a big responsibility to tend,though we see it just as low and unimportant it is.Exactly,I'm just realize the miracles beneath it.MasyaAllah..Subhanallah..Allahuakbar..

Point to ponder : Open your mind,see with your heart,and let the zikir recite every time you feel amazed~~すごい！！

1. Fish in the ocean
2. Behind the creation of tree
3. Water,the vital element of nature
4. Learn community life from bee
5. The river flow just like the time flow
6. Focus on your strength ,like the lizard
7. Learn to be grateful from watermelon
8. Negative visual from thatch
9. Banana never grow the second times
10. Why ocean salty??
11. Behind the creation of camel
12. Learn to be low profile from paddy
13. Learn from Grass
14. Look at the heaven,and remember God
15. Eagle and the flying school

I'll continue soon to define each topic..see you soon..Wassalam=)

It's time to be counted...dumdum..dumdum..

Bismillahirrahmannir rahim..

Assalamualaikum wbt..i'm in battle mode,so to make one more day to be count,i present my favourite roh's food...a child's prayer..O Allah I love you so..I really love all the prayers recited by a child.It's like I become a child again though I'm old enough to have a child on my own..but nevermind me,it just the recitation that i want to share..have a nice day,let it be COUNTED....

For true believers,we must be..=}

We need to grab hold together to be 1 ummah=)

"Sexy" Fashions . . . What Do Men Think?

How do those "sexy" fashions really affect men? As a man, I'd like to explain.

Frequently I see women poured into tight jeans and short mini-skirts. Others wear revealing blouses, tight sweaters and sheer pants. Women are wearing "sexy" fashions just about everywhere - to work, school and even to church.

But do "sexy" clothes get women what they really want? Are these women striving to be honored, loved and respected by men?

Sometimes when I see women wearing "sexy" outfits, I wonder . . . Maybe she's looking for a boyfriend or hoping she'll attract her future husband? Or, maybe she feels she has to show off parts of her body to compete with other women for her boyfriend or husband's love and attention?

Maybe it's a power rush for some women to know their body caught a man's eye and became the focus of his attention. Maybe turning heads and hearing hoots and wistles is an ego booster for some?
It may be these reasons or others, but the bottom line is this: Dressing in "sexy" clothes will not cause men to honor and respect women. In fact, it actually guarantees women that men will dishonor and disrespect them.

What Triggers Sexual Thoughts in Men?

It's natural to want to dress attractively. But without always being aware of it, women who wear "sexy" clothes are "dressing for sex" -- that is, dressing in ways that set off sexual thoughts in men.

Why do men react this way, and why don't women always realize it? Because men and women are "wired" differently when it comes to the human body. The fact is, it doesn't take much visual stimulus at all for guys to become sexually aroused. The sight of the female body - even just a little bit and even if it's a complete stranger -- can trigger sexual thoughts instantly. This might be difficult for women to understand, but it's absolutely true.

How about women? My female friends tell me that, sure . . . women appreciate handsome, well-built men -- but women are not affected visually in the same intense way that men are. Women for example, find words of love, tenderness and sincere appreciation much more meaningful than physical images of men.

Given these differences, there's no question that "sexy" clothes will get a man's attention. For some women this may seem flattering or fun at first, but ultimately, it's not fulfilling because it won't attract the kind of attention -- or the man -- that a woman really wants. Why? Because it causes men to want to "use" women sexually rather than love them for who they are.

Remember, the sight of a woman's body is so powerful for men, that unless men are well trained and highly disciplined, it's difficult for them to refrain from sexual thoughts. And once these thoughts begin, they can, and frequently do, turn to impure thoughts (ie. "If only we were alone, I'd sure like to . . . ").

These thoughts are called lust, and the clothes women wear can actually trigger these thoughts in a split second. Don't be mistaken, men are responsible for their thoughts, but what women wear -- how women present themselves -- plays a major role. Dressing "sexy" is like sending an invitation to men. Sure, if a man lets his mind run wild with lust when he sees a woman, he's responsible for the thoughts he entertains. But ladies, don't you see that what you wear can be an invitation to temptation?

Why do Men see Women as Sex Objects?

Whether you know it or not, if you dress in revealing clothes, many men will see you as a "sex object." Not only that, but the way you dress can affect how men view other women as well. When women dress in "sexy" clothes, it not only promotes lustful thoughts, but it also encourages men to develop a warped vision of all women -- a view that can cause men to think of and treat all women as sex objects.

Whether it's conscious or unconscious, if you present yourself in a way that is sexually revealing, even in the slightest of ways, many men will want your body for their own sexual pleasure without regard for you as a person. Dressing this way will cause people to think of you as sexually loose. Men you meet will be constantly distracted with sexual temptations and find it hard to ever get to know you as a person. Some will verbally harass you. Others will tell you they love you -- or anything they think you want to hear -- just to get into bed with you. Still others will try to grope -- or even rape you.

Now let me be clear. No matter how a woman is dressed, it's never an excuse for rape or sexual aggression of any kind. Men who commit these acts have committed a sin and a crime. Nothing I'm saying is an excuse or a rationalization for rape or sexual assault. As a man, I'm here to tell you that men must be more disciplined. We must control our thoughts and actions no matter what temptations are presented before us.

But ladies, we need your help. Please don't be misled by women's magazines that say the only thing guys are after is sex. Don't think you've got to dress "sexy" to compete for the "good" guys. That's not true. It's guys who want to use you sexually (either in their minds or in person) that are going to encourage you to dress "sexy."

Good guys are out there and you don't have to show off your body to meet them. Be patient. Deep down inside, guys want to meet and marry girls who are pure, modest and virtuous. And what you wear tells the world a great deal about what you think about yourself. It speaks volumes about what qualities you give high priority to when it comes to relationships.

Do you want men to think of lustful thoughts when they see you? Will that attrack good men?
(Me,no!!!!!!!!!)

I know it may seem that good men are few and far between, but they are out there. And remember, the way you dress can help encourage more men to be good and treat women with respect.

Love the You Inside!

Most women want to be loved and respected for who they are inside, not for their looks. Isn't that what you want? Don't you want to be loved by a man who loves you for who you are inside? This kind of man is a sincere, pure-hearted, virtuous man -- a man who's confident, disciplined and committed to you and your relationship.

This is a man with sexual self-control. It's not a man who's looking for quick flings or lusting after every cute girl he sees.

But what role does modesty play? Katherine Kersten, commentator on National Public Radio and chairman of the Center of the American Experiment, wrote:

"But modesty is about something more -- simple fairness. We women demand respect from men, insisting that they value us not for our looks, but for 'who we are.' It is hypocritical to do this, and then dress and act immodestly -- intentionally provoking sexual desire, and signaling our easy openness to it. To act this way is to undermine our own dignity, to treat ourselves as 'sex objects.' Moreover, it is patently unfair, for it means that we are holding men to a higher standard than we hold ourselves."

Finding Lasting Love . . .

If you are seeking lasting love and a life-long marriage that unites mind, soul and body -- the best way to achieve this is by being the kind of person you want your future spouse to be. Think of yourself and your future mate as someone with integrity, a vibrant personality and a strong character. If you develop these qualities and demonstrate them through words, actions and appearance, it will help you attract the same in a spouse.

Many good men are out there -- men with wonderful personalities, men who are respectful, intelligent and looking for a long-term relationship -- men who will be faithful and committed to one wife for life. To find a truly honorable man like this, remember that he'll be attracted to a woman who dresses modestly as a sign of her purity and a sign that she recognizes each person is unique, unrepeatable and created in the image and likeness of God.

By dressing modestly, a woman sends a message to the world -- that every person was created to love and be loved in the purest of ways. Modesty also shows the great reverence we should have for our bodies and our immortal souls -- two sacred gifts that should always be treated with dignity and respect.

If you want a man to respect you, and perhaps eventually fall in love with you, then you must show him that you respect yourself and that you recognize your dignity before God. The best way to show this is through modesty in dress, words, thoughts and actions.

In closing, I want to thank all women who dress modestly. I sincerely appreciate it when a woman makes this extra effort.

I personally know several women who always dress in modest clothes. When I see them, I always try to let them know how much I appreciate their pretty, modest attire. Many of these women are very beautiful, but what makes them even more attractive than physical beauty or fashionable clothes, is the virtue of modesty which glows through their spirit. Their modesty shows thoughtfulness, inner strength and a great respect for others. Modesty also shows a pure heart and a generous desire to save oneself for a spouse (future or current).

Ladies, thank you for your modesty! It really helps us men.

by Mike Mathews from http://www.prolife.com/SexyFashions.htm

The mistake I made..

Assalamualaikum wbt..

みんあ、おげんきですか??　わたしわ　げんきない　です。まいにち　あめ　あります。さむい　です。As cold as my heart, still beating but lost the one thing i dear most.

Life for me are like a story book.I am impatiently eager to look at the next page of the book,and imagining the climax of the story.However,it just not as しあわせ as I imagine,it would not a happy-ending story forever.

The author of my book is Allah.My Creator,my Sustainer.Which always write the best ことば　と　ものがたり。However,me inside the book,the one character that always happen to be troublesome.Always sigh sadly,and been mesmerize by the situation around me.

The author had write WORLD as a bewitching place,full of sinister smiles and also an outstanding happiness.Then,the author made the plot into a maze-look alike.Puzzled and apparently unpredictable.Some characters feel like they had doing their best to fulfill the captivating world,the enchanting life and the fascination of the plot.While the other characters feel like they want to attribute their life to match-alike with the story,in the same time planning for their appearance in the sequel of the book.

Which characters are me??

Which characters are you??

あなたを choice わ　なにか??

はい、LIFE IS A CHOICE..which characters you want to be,and which ending you imagine to be..

Actually,world does not split into good and bad people.Because,inside every of us together had the good and bad side.And it is OUR CHOICE about which side we want to play best..

It does not too late.And better be late than never.Allah is FORGIVEN.I am here to advice myself,and others that we should recognize the mistake we make can involve us to a gravely danger and severe outcome if we still play the characters until the last page of the book.

"O God,Ya Allah,please give me a chance to re-correct my mistake.It's all because of my bad judgement,my ignorance and my inattention.Please save me from the bad intention of other people.It just YOU that I need most"

Self Correction Mode

Bismillah..

Assalamualaikum wbt minna..here,something i would like to share,a point to ponder..praise Allah for what have you look,heard,feel,taste and thought..たすけて Allah、おなじ もの です。なるほど!!

I know you are there

Little bird,

Covered by rich green, talking to the tree

Yes, a talking tree!

I know you are hiding

Little ant,

Under the solid brown, listening to the song

Yes, the singing earth!

I know you are relaxing

Tiny drop of rain,

Inside the airy white, hearing the laugh

Yes, a laughing cloud!

I know you are dancing

Little bee,

Beside fresh colors, joining a prayer

Yes, a praying flower!

I know you are breathing

Little fish,

Deep in the wide blue, amazed by stories

Yes, the Historian Ocean!

I am sitting in my room

Seeing you all in the heart of my eye

Praising the work of God

Wishing to add more before I die

Talking tree

Singing earth

Laughing cloud

Praying flower; and

Historian Ocean

Let me join you, and be sublime

Praising Allah till the end of our time!

Author :- Sis Zoya Ahmad

I'm preparing for a battle..

Assalamualaikum wbt..daijobu deska??Minna,terrifying time nowadays..but point to ponder,


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